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PublisherRandom House Publishing Group
ISBN-100345548671
ISBN-139780345548672
eBay Product ID (ePID)201682530
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Book TitleSoul of Discipline : The Simplicity Parenting Approach to Warm, Firm, and Calm Guidance- from Toddlers to Teens
Number of Pages256 Pages
LanguageEnglish
TopicParenting / General, Developmental / Child, Life Stages / School Age
Publication Year2015
IllustratorYes
GenreFamily & Relationships, Psychology
AuthorKim John Payne
FormatHardcover
Dimensions
Item Height1.2 in
Item Weight19.4 Oz
Item Length9.4 in
Item Width6.4 in
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Intended AudienceTrade
LCCN2015-005743
ReviewsAdvance praise for The Soul of Discipline "The Soul of Discipline offers practical tools for helping parents implement discipline that's respectful and effective, but the book is so much more. Kim John Payne offers a framework to guide parents in making decisions about why, when, and how to hold tighter reins as we build skills in our children, and why, when, and how to loosen the reins as we scaffold freedom." --Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D., co-author of No-Drama Discipline "This book gets deep inside the challenge of getting along with children and teens and thinks deeply about what they need from us to become strong and self-managing. It elevates discipline to what it should be--a caring process of helping kids orient to the world and live in it happily and well." --Steve Biddulph, author of The New Manhood "Kim Payne provides a useful model for choosing our parenting stance--Governor, Gardener, or Guide--depending on the situation. Most powerfully, Payne begins with the radical view that children are not disobedient but rather disoriented. The upshot of this shift in perspective is that discipline is about helping children orient themselves effectively, not about controlling or chastising." --Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D., author of Playful Parenting " The Soul of Discipline draws on Kim John Payne's years of gifted school and family counseling to show us with its clear and simple tone how to discipline without becoming our children's enemy. It is filled with memorable stories, dialogues that will engage your imagination, and great strategies. By the book's end, a new picture of parenting will live in you, one that will honor the soul of your children as you provide the structure, training, and guidance they need at each stage of their development." --Dee Joy Coulter, Ed.D., author of Original Mind, Praise for Kim John Payne's Simplicity Parenting "[Payne is] like a master closet reorganizer for the soul." -- Time "If you are raising children in these anxious times, you need this book. It will inspire you, reassure you, and, most important, it will remind you that less is more." --Katrina Kenison, author of The Gift of an Ordinary Day "Practical strategies for turning down the volume and creating a pace that fosters calmness, mindfulness, reflection, and individuality in children. Simplicity Parenting should be on every parent's (indeed, every person's) reading list." --Kathleen A. Brehony, Ph.D., author of Awakening at Midlife "Brilliant, wise, informative, innovative, entertaining, and urgently needed. This timely book is a godsend for all who love children, and for children themselves. It provides a doable plan for providing the kind of childhood kids desperately need today!" --Edward M. Hallowell, M.D., author of The Childhood Roots of Adult Happiness, Praise for Kim John Payne's Simplicity Parenting "[Payne is] like a master closet reorganizer for the soul." -- Time "If you are raising children in these anxious times, you need this book. It will inspire you, reassure you, and, most important, it will remind you that less is more." --Katrina Kenison, author of The Gift of an Ordinary Day "Including practical strategies for turning down the volume and creating a pace that fosters calmness, mindfulness, reflection, and individuality in children, Simplicity Parenting should be on every parent's (indeed, every person's) reading list." --Kathleen A. Brehony, Ph.D., author of Awakening at Midlife "Brilliant, wise, informative, innovative, entertaining, and urgently needed, this timely book is a godsend for all who love children, and for children themselves. It provides a doable plan for providing the kind of childhood that kids desperately need today!" --Edward M. Hallowell, M.D., author of The Childhood Roots of Adult Happine ss
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SynopsisIn this groundbreaking book, parenting expert and acclaimed author of the bestselling book Simplicity Parenting Kim John Payne, M.Ed., flips the script on children's challenging or defiant behavior and lays out an elegantly simple plan to support parents in establishing loving, age-sensitive boundaries that help children feel safe and settled. In short: What looks like misbehavior is actually your children's signal that they're feeling lost, that they are trying to find direction and looking to you to guide them back on course. Payne gives parents heartwarming help and encouragement by combining astute observations with sensitive and often funny stories from his long career as a parent educator and a school and family counselor. In accessible language, he explains the relevance of current brain- and child-development studies to day-to-day parenting. Breaking the continuum of childhood into three stages, Payne says that parents need to play three different roles, each corresponding to one of those stages, to help steer children through their emotional growth and inevitable challenging times: - The Governor, who is comfortably and firmly in charge--setting limits and making decisions for the early years up to around the age of eight - The Gardener, who watches for emotional growth and makes decisions based on careful listening, assisting tweens in making plans that take the whole family's needs into account - The Guide, who is both a sounding board and moral compass for emerging adults, helping teens build a sense of their life's direction as a way to influence healthy decision making Practical and rooted in common sense, The Soul of Discipline gives parents permission to be warm and nurturing but also calm and firm (not overreactive). It gives clear, doable strategies to get things back on track for parents who sense that their children's behavior has fallen into a troubling pattern. And best of all, it provides healthy direction to the entire family so parents can spend less time and energy on outmoded, punitive discipline and more on connecting with and enjoying their kids. Advance praise for The Soul of Discipline "The Soul of Discipline offers practical tools for helping parents implement discipline that's respectful and effective, but the book is so much more. Kim John Payne offers a framework to guide parents in making decisions about why, when, and how to hold tighter reins as we build skills in our children, and why, when, and how to loosen the reins as we scaffold freedom." --Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D., co-author of No-Drama Discipline "This book gets deep inside the challenge of getting along with children and teens and thinks deeply about what they need from us to become strong and self-managing. It elevates discipline to what it should be--a caring process of helping kids orient to the world and live in it happily and well." --Steve Biddulph, author of The New Manhood "Kim Payne provides a useful model for choosing our parenting stance--Governor, Gardener, or Guide--depending on the situation. Most powerfully, Payne begins with the radical view that children are not disobedient but rather disoriented. The upshot of this shift in perspective is that discipline is about helping children orient themselves effectively, not about controlling or chastising." --Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D., author of Playful Parenting, There is no such thing as a disobedient child, only a disoriented one. As internationally-respected parenting expert Kim John Payne explains, a child's misbehavior is a means of navigation- they are asking us to show them where they stand. Combining Payne's astute observations and stories with brain-based evidence and child development expertise, The Soul of Discipline offers a simple, three-phased road map for orienting children to appropriate behavior without resorting to punishment and ultimatums- -Parents act as the "Governor" of children up to age seven or eight; -the "Gardener" who watches, listens and decides on the right course of action with the school-aged child; -and finally the "Guide" who collaborates with an increasingly mature child in the teen years. At each stage, Payne gives parents a series of small, do-able changes that build off the existing family dynamic (as well as a "rescue kit" for families coming to his program in later years), allowing parents to keep their own unique parenting voice, but to speak with greater clarity.
LC Classification NumberHQ755.8.P39933 2015
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- 03. Feb. 2024
Nothing Changes If Nothing Changes.
Extremely beneficial information for anyone working with children and willing to change up the old habits that are not working. Simple Parenting at its best requires a compassionate heart with a spirit willing to change conditions of the past. Nothing changes if nothing changes and Kim John Payne’s approach is profoundly brilliant, kind and consistent. Growing up in the 70’s/80’s with punishment, shame and blame was the mode of consequences. Firm, calm, warm discipline makes for expected and predictable change. This authors life work has incredible outcomes when put into practice.Bestätigter Kauf: JaArtikelzustand: Neu
