Reviews" When the World Feels Like a Scary Place is a much-needed resource to help families navigate anxiety in an uncertain world." - Booklist, " When the World Feels Like a Scary Place is a much-needed resource to help families navigate anxiety in an uncertain world." - Booklist "[ When the World Feels Like a Scary Place] equips parents with concrete techniques for broaching sensitive subjects.... [this] guide is essential reading for parents who want to prepare their families to face today's challenges without fear." - BookPage "[Dr. Abigail Gewirtz] shows parents how to listen, what to say, and how to say it" - Greater Good Magazine , Best Parenting Books of the Year 2020 NAUTILUS BOOK AWARDS - Silver, Parenting Family 2021 SKIPPING STONES HONOR AWARDS - Teaching Resources 2021 NATIONAL ASSOCIATION FOR GIFTED CHILDREN BOOK OF THE YEAR - Parenting/Caregiver category, " When the World Feels Like a Scary Place is a much-needed resource to help families navigate anxiety in an uncertain world." - Booklist "[ When the World Feels Like a Scary Place] equips parents with concrete techniques for broaching sensitive subjects.... [this] guide is essential reading for parents who want to prepare their families to face today's challenges without fear." - BookPage
Dewey Edition23
Dewey Decimal155.4/1246
Table Of ContentTable of Contents Introduction: Trampolines PART 1: The Age of Anxiety Chapter 1: Parents Matter Now More Than Ever Chapter 2: What Bad News Does to (Us) Parents Chapter 3: Nature, Nurture, and the Parent-Child Dance PART 2: Understanding Emotions Chapter 4: Teaching Children About Emotions Chapter 5: Help Kids Respond to Big Emotions Chapter 6: Coaching Emotions PART 3: Essential Conversations How Do I Talk with My Child? Chapter 7: Conversations About Violence Chapter 8: Conversations About Natural Disasters and Climate Change Chapter 9: Conversations About the Perils of Technology Chapter 10: Conversations About Social Justice Chapter 11: Conversations About Our Divided Society Epilogue: "Take Ten" to Help Children Grow into Confident, Compassionate, and Civil Adults PART 4: Bonus Conversations Feeling Scared During the COVID-19/Coronavirus Pandemic When a Parent Deploys Resources Notes Acknowledgments Index
SynopsisIn our complicated world, big issues make both parents and children anxious. So how should parents talk to their kids about the things that make both parent and child on edge - from family financial issues to school shootings to global warming? Here, an expert child psychologist offers parents scripts for conversations that will help us raise kids who are informed, engaged, and confident., "A terrific book for parents who want to know how to talk about difficult, emotional issues with children."--Nancy Eisenberg, Regents' Professor of Psychology, Arizona State University Includes how to talk to your kids about COVID-19. In a lifesaving guide for parents, Dr. Abigail Gewirtz shows how to use the most basic tool at your disposal--conversation--to give children real help in dealing with the worries, stress, and other negative emotions caused by problems in the world, from active shooter drills to climate change. But it's not just how to talk to your kids, it's also what to say: The heart of When the World Feels Like a Scary Place is a series of conversation scripts--with actual dialogue, talking points, prompts, and insightful asides--that are each age-appropriate and centered around different issues. Along the way are tips about staying calm in an anxious world; the way children react to stress, and how parents can read the signs; and how parents can make sure that their own anxiety doesn't color the conversation. Talking and listening are essential for nurturing resilient, confident, and compassionate children. And conversation will help you manage your anxieties too, offering a path of wholeness and security for everyone in the family. "Remarkable... Compelling advice illustrated with memorable case examples."--Ann S. Masten, PhD, Irving B. Harris Professor of Child Development, University of Minnesota, An urgent and necessary book, When the World Feels Like a Scary Place brings solutions to a problem that is only going to get worse--how bad things happening in the world affect our children, and how we can raise engaged and confident kids in spite of them. It's an understatement to say we live in an age of anxiety. Political polarization, school shootings, income inequality, climate issues, sexual harassment, and more--whether it's on the news or hitting closer to home, it's impossible to tune out. Problem is, most children can't put these issues in perspective, and parents, often anxious themselves, can have a hard time talking to their kids without making it worse. Dr. Abigail Gewirtz, a child psychologist and leading expert on families under stress, now offers a clear and truly practical guide to having the kind of tough conversations with your kids that really help. But it's not just how to talk to your kids, it's also what to say: The heart of the book is a series of conversation scripts, with actual dialogue, talking points, prompts, and insightful asides, each tailored for different ages and centered around different issues. She shows how to let the child lead. How to not make the problem worse by saying more than a child needs to know. How to check in with yourself to make sure your own anxiety doesn't color the conversation. Along the way are tips about staying calm in an anxious world; the different ways children react to stress, and how parents can read the signs; and how parents can make sure they stay on the same page (stress often causes a rift between parents--Dr. Abi gives advice for dealing with this together). It's a book needed now more than ever, offering a path of wholeness and security for both anxious parents and worried kids.
LC Classification NumberBF723.A5G49 2020