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Product Identifiers
PublisherHIGH Conflict Institute Press
ISBN-101950057100
ISBN-139781950057108
eBay Product ID (ePID)18038540557
Product Key Features
Book TitleBiff for Coparent Communication : Your Guide to Difficult Texts, Emails, and Social Media Posts
Number of Pages246 Pages
LanguageEnglish
TopicDivorce & Separation, Family Law / Divorce & Separation, General, Conflict Resolution
Publication Year2020
GenreFamily & Relationships, Law, Self-Help
AuthorKevin Chafin, Annette Burns, Bill Eddy
Book SeriesConflict Communication Ser.
FormatTrade Paperback
Dimensions
Item Height0.5 in
Item Weight10.6 Oz
Item Length8.5 in
Item Width6.5 in
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Intended AudienceTrade
Series Volume Number3
Table Of ContentS E C T I O N 1 C H A P T E R 1: Blamespeak C H A P T E R 2: Writing a BIFF Communication C H A P T E R 3: Avoid the Three A's: Admonishments, Advice, and Apologies S E C T I O N 2 C H A P T E R 4: BIFFs About Routine Coparenting C H A P T E R 5: BIFFs About Education C H A P T E R 6: BIFFs About Healthcare C H A P T E R 7: BIFFs About Activities C H A P T E R 8: BIFFs About Finances C H A P T E R 9: BIFFs About Changes to Plans and Schedules C H A P T E R 1 0: BIFFs for Social Media S E C T I O N 3 C H A P T E R 1 1: Coaching for BIFF C H A P T E R 1 2: You Decide APPENDICES A P P E N D I X A: Top 12 Tips for CoParent Boundaries A P P E N D I X B: What to Tell Children About a High Conflict CoParent (And What Not to Say) A P P E N D I X C: Calming Upset People with EAR
Synopsis" Coparenting is hard in any circumstance and when doing it with someone that has a high conflict personality, can seem impossible. The first step is to admit that you are outmatched in every way except for the ability to learn new skills related to the high conflict personality. My life did not change until I began to read and understand and start using tools like BIFF. I couldn't help my children because I couldn't help myself and until I learned new tools, felt hopeless. Using BIFF will give you hope that change is possible ." A.C., parent Use BIFF to Communicate with Your Ex's Blaming, Accusing and Taunting Texts and Emails In divorce and co-parenting, not only do you need to deal with your own emotions, you may be faced with a daily barrage of hostile calls, texts, email, and social media blasts. How can you regain a sense of control and peace for your own sake and for the kids? For more than a decade, the BIFF method of responding to hostile and misinforming emails, texts, and conversations has grown in use by thousands of people dealing with a difficult co-parent and with those who may have a high conflict personality, and it helps with those who don't. This third book in the BIFF(tm) Conflict Communication Series is especially devoted to parents dealing with issues during, and after, separation and divorce. Complete with instructions in the four-step BIFF method, and numerous practical examples, readers will learn the intricacies of their new parenting environment. When parents use this approach, not only do they feel good about their end of the written or verbal conversation, but it tends to influence the other parent to communicate more productively as well. While it's simple and practical, it's not natural for most of us because we are hooked by the emotional intensity. This book can help you reduce the conflict and regain your sanity by learning what to write and what not to write. B rief, I nformative, F riendly, F irm BIFF is a communication game changer--it works!, " Coparenting is hard in any circumstance and when doing it with someone that has a high conflict personality, can seem impossible. The first step is to admit that you are outmatched in every way except for the ability to learn new skills related to the high conflict personality. My life did not change until I began to read and understand and start using tools like BIFF. I couldn't help my children because I couldn't help myself and until I learned new tools, felt hopeless. Using BIFF will give you hope that change is possible ." A.C., parent Use BIFF to Communicate with Your Ex's Blaming, Accusing and Taunting Texts and Emails In divorce and co-parenting, not only do you need to deal with your own emotions, you may be faced with a daily barrage of hostile calls, texts, email, and social media blasts. How can you regain a sense of control and peace for your own sake and for the kids? For more than a decade, the BIFF method of responding to hostile and misinforming emails, texts, and conversations has grown in use by thousands of people dealing with a difficult co-parent and with those who may have a high conflict personality, and it helps with those who don't. This third book in the BIFF(TM) Conflict Communication Series is especially devoted to parents dealing with issues during, and after, separation and divorce. Complete with instructions in the four-step BIFF method, and numerous practical examples, readers will learn the intricacies of their new parenting environment. When parents use this approach, not only do they feel good about their end of the written or verbal conversation, but it tends to influence the other parent to communicate more productively as well. While it's simple and practical, it's not natural for most of us because we are hooked by the emotional intensity. This book can help you reduce the conflict and regain your sanity by learning what to write and what not to write. B rief, I nformative, F riendly, F irm BIFF is a communication game changer-it works!, First printing: 10,000 copies Third book in our extremely popular BIFF Conflict Communication Series. Based on the original BIFF book which has sold 20,000 copies + 10,000 copies through seminar back-of-room sales. BIFF is a technique for responding to difficult people by email, text, social media, etc. It brings structure and a method to contain conflict and shut hostile communication down. Another book in the series also being published this season: BIFF at Work. The author and co-authors are launching BIFF seminars and online courses through the High Conflict Institute in the U.S., Canada, and Australia this year. Lead author, Bill Eddy, has written sixteen books. The BIFF brand will be heavily promoted via social media. Galleys available via Edelweiss around 4 months before publication.
